Top Porno - La porte d'entrée du porn en français. Was sort of variations in BDSM play are you interested in trying? Check Out this Other Great BDSM Checklist By Theresa Berkley – Click Here!Ĭourtesy of OTHER SITES WE RECOMMEND: Best BDSM Porn Sites I want extensive verbal communication during the play (Y/N): (Hemophilia, Allergies, Breathing Problems, Circulation, …) Explore your kink by working it into dirty talki.e. Visible bruises/marks must be avoided (Y/N): Its totally normal to be turned on by the idea of your partner having sex with someone else. (D/s, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Fetishism) Even the preparation of an “erotic power play” can be lots of fun and very stimulating. You can also print this page and if you like fill it out together with your partner. 0 means: “I don’t care / that doesn’t give me a ‘Kick'”. The ranking starts at -3 (I don’t ever want to try this) and ranges to +3 (I like it very much). “Active” means you want to be the active / executive part. Part 2 contains several play variants, sorted by topics. This part is especially important if you don’t know your partner very well or if you are going to play with a new partner. Part 1 covers some safety aspects and contains some questions and hints related to health and safety issues. It is also meant to help establishing a proper communication by going through the list and tell your partner what you like and what not and what you would like to try. NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).Ġ No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).Ģ Willing to do, but has no special appeal.ģ Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.Ĥ LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.ĥ WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.The following Partner Checklist serves two purposes: it demonstrates a few things you and your partner should consider before, during and after the play and some aspects which can be included in your play. * I will do with current sex partner only. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient/target of the activity. There is intentionally some overlap between categories. For example under diapers you might wish to distinguish between ' wetting' and ' soiling'. Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom to know in the margin to the right.

Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play partners.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular / occasional basis.2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if it they really wanted it.NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).'?' means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender. For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.Switches should go through the checklist twice one person's Dom and sub interests may be very different.įor each item, you need to provide two answers: Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on their specific interests. This will provide a quick 'head-start' to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play. This checklist should be filled out by a sub and provided to their Dom/ Top before playing with them.

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